yes i thought to remmbering what was the rules in our country or in south sudan
for the marry??
i hope every one to return back a little bit to remmeber what was the regulation of
marry. because we have a five way for the marry while we were in aweil.
[1] directly[ when you come home to say for the parents ,,,i need your doughter.
[2]when the parents want to make a good relationshipe with ather family they give thier
doughter to that family with nothing.
[3]when the guy had fall in the ladys love and may be the lady donot want him to be her husband ,the guy can take her by power to his home and at last the lady can be a wife.
[4]when the lady had fall in the guys love and sometimes may be the guy have not a chance to get marry or may be the guy donot want this lady to be his wife, the lady can come directly and secretly to the guys parents house, and at last they can get marry.
[5]when the guyand the lady are fall togeither in the love and may be them relatives donot want them relation love to be contining , the guy and the lady can make a mistake but also
this mistake can be fix and will be a good marry and a good relationshipe between thier parents.
so why i wish you to remmbering all this rules ? because we are the aweil people
we lost many childern and brothers sisters during the lightless war .and many rules were changing while we were moving over places . and we lost our traditional for the simple reasons
we need to make arrangement for the new life in southern sudan and aweil all over the world
We need to sing up a new rule for the marry for aweil community over the world event if you are n aweil or america or canada or australia or any where over the world..
if i asking you can you answer me //why the old aweil before the dark war had done to union the aweil family??? however those people didnot get any education at that time??
so and what the reason now for the new aweil whom are a live the freedom after the war??
we lost many families in cairo, niarobi , america,canada had brokenas wellas the ladies and guys were rebeled thier relative and they a gainst the rule of the marry so who is the head of this mistake????
i hope all aweil communities over the world have to sing up a new rule for the marry because
we gone a lose our traditional in marry ...
And i thank you lot for attention
australia new south wale------your brother atak wol akok
First and foremost, I like your insightful perspectives with regard to maintenance of our culture and traditions. You got it right. This is exactly where we have a lot of problems, particularly some of us who missed parental education or advice when they were very young. Push it forward my brother.