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Kudual menh ke Aweil


I am new to this forum and at the same time I need your warm welcoming!! I will be elated if I meet most people especially my homies, friends, and all!! It looks good for me when I look into this board!!

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Hi Mike,

You are genuinely welcome to Mading Aweil public forum by Aweil people and their counter participants. Please feel at home.

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Dear Kuot, and all,


By the way who is Mike? I have tried to know who is this person with no avail. However, I am afraid some anonymous name are begining to appear, which may not be good. Otherwise, I beg your pardon, if the person called Mike is real. For the sake of authencity, people tend to use their real name, instead of misleading names.


Thanks.


Ateny Wekdit



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Welcome aboard Mike, we shall hopefully know you by your true name (and not by the name of mzungu/kawaja) along the way. You will surely have great time here.


Dear Ateny Wek,


I don't know who Mike is, but we shall hopefully know him with time. Take care.


Kuot Kuot.



-- Edited by Kuot Kuot at 00:59, 2004-10-06

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Originally posted by: atenywek

"Dear Kuot, and all, By the way who is Mike? I have tried to know who is this person with no avail. However, I am afraid some anonymous name are begining to appear, which may not be good. Otherwise, I beg your pardon, if the person called Mike is real. For the sake of authencity, people tend to use their real name, instead of misleading names. Thanks. Ateny Wekdit"



Primarily, I am apologizing to all members of Mading Aweil and room in large because I did registration where I don’t know and I didn’t recognize that your rules never want names such as Mike and so on!!


 


Opening, I am welcomed and idyllic to meet most of you herein although I didn’t make a lot of conversations with you, guys. It is still a wonderful meeting!! I am also frightened and intimidated by other voices that I had heard when reading some responses!!


 


Santino Ajith,


 


Thanks for the warmest welcoming to this board of Mading Aweil. I am pleasure for all you said, and in most time we will have a great time to know each other.


 


 


Kuot Kuot!!


 


I would like to say thank you so much for the welcome you said. First, name is still Mike. Mostly you would have known me if we had a time to know one another on this forum. Hopefully, I wish I would have good time with you all if I had never met some inconvenience words!!


 


 


Ateny Wek dit!!


 


Kudual!!  I am Mike. My identification is my name. It must be my name as I mentioned Mike.  I am threatening and much more intimidated by the statements and phrases you put across to me: “no avail, I am afraid some anonymous names are beginning to appear, which may not be good.” I am on familiar terms with that Mading Aweil is a big Town that comprises big population with different names, tittles, and with a great welcoming, great love, equal treatments, real just, and with no threatening and some sort of intimidations to its citizens or ordinary people. My question: How do you know that the person is from Aweil or is not from Aweil? Do you judge him or her by names or words?


 


By the way, I gotta withdraw my participations as soon as I read your responses toward this portion of writing………..I made. I am frightened by the terms you sacrificed to me.


 


Thanks to all Mading Aweil's members and Kudual mithke baai, have a good time!! Good luck!!


 



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Brother Mike,


If you can exuse me, I would be glad to clarify a few things here. Presuming that you have read most of the articles on this board, you probably have realized that anyone is welcome here regardless of all other things. We have emphasised more than once that never will we discriminate anyone on this board so long as he/she wants to share with us with pure intentions.


Regarding Mr. Ateny Wek's concern,  I would say that Ateny Wek doesn't have any problem with you whatsoever, there is no way one would have problem with someone he/she does not know. Ateny Wek's concern is primarily prompted by his ( and indeed all of us') experiences on many boards. The use of pseudo names has almost always led to erosion of principle values upon which a given board was built. Assuming that you have membership on many other boards, you will agree with me that majority of conflicts on many boards be they tribalism or unnecessary personal confrontation can very much be blamed on the use of anonymous names. This doesn't however mean that every person who uses pseudo name intends to cause conflict on a given board. It is in light of what I explained that concern Ateny Wek as there is no way to tell who uses anonymous name with good intentions and who does not.


So don't feel "threatened" as you put it, Ateny Wek is just interested in our board being characterized by mature and constructive arguments, and this I believe must be in your interest too. Every person always appreciates an environment where agreements or disagreements are based on ideological differences as opposed to emotions. Once again thank you for letting us know your concern. Take care


Kuot Kuot



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Originally posted by: atenywek
"Dear Kuot, and all, By the way who is Mike? I have tried to know who is this person with no avail. However, I am afraid some anonymous name are begining to appear, which may not be good. Otherwise, I beg your pardon, if the person called Mike is real. For the sake of authencity, people tend to use their real name, instead of misleading names. Thanks. Ateny Wekdit"



Originally posted by:Mayik


"Dear John Aleu Jock,



 


"First and foremost I appreciate your membership.



 


"Madingayuel is a big tree, with its branches trying to fly the sky, its leaves drifting with wind, its trunks hidding within its presence, its roots getting deeper and deeper into no fertility, and in comparison with no trees. What a tree?"



 


John, What do you mean by above quoted statement? Are you advising Aweil people, or  you are trying to tell them their incapability regardless of their endeavors to better their futures or tomorrows?"



 


Dear Kout and all,


Mike have right to withdrew from the board, can you plz explain to me the above quots messages, if it happen that Madingaweil forum is for particular people and has been managed by certain individuals, try to declare it as a written announcement, otherwise, nobody is ready to accept any threats.


The right of expression is an individual right, as well as how to name myself, iam sure that almost 90% of southern sudanese and Aweil in particular have that names and nobody rejected them in their communities. If you don't like those names in this forum, it's okay for mike to withdraw and even John Aleu. And i reguest from you as a manager, that try to put some guidelines for those you fierce and threat others.


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Ngor



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Dear Ngor Kolong.


Logically speaking, one doesn't extinguish fire by adding another fire, differently put, one doesn't solve problem by adding more fuel. It is unfortunate that someone like you would comment like that. Ngor, there is nothing spectacularly threatening in the language used by Ateny Wek and I believe, Mike will agree with me on that. Ateny Wek raised his concern just like anyone else would do and I guess my comment with regard to this misunderstanding was clear. I really can't understanding what you want me to say besides what I told Mike in my previous article. Why are trying to instigate a problem that is not there?


Frankly speaking, I kind of not like the wording of your article; you sound a little threatening which actually contradicts what you are trying to champion: eradication of "threats". Read what I said a few days a go to one of our members regarding the management of this board, click here to read. 


Finally, I advise you not to take my responses to Mike out of context, I am not desperate to have Mike on the board nor do I need to see him gone, it is entirely upon him to continue sharing with us or leave the board, I can't make that decision for him. What I want to avoid is creating a false impression that he was "kicked out of Mading Aweil board" because he doesn't belong there. This is a public board and anyone can become a member and like all other public boards, membership is a choice; one can register or deregister on this board at will. I hope I have answered you. Best regards.


Kuot Kuot.


 


 



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Dear all


There is nothing wrong with THE name Mike. Africans are using this Christians nameS such as William, Abraham, and Gabriel and so on and they are accepted in our passport. I don’t see anything wrong accepting Mike in the public forum.


 


If Mike or any other member of this forum wrote something that violates the regulations of the forum, then it is a duty of moderators to deal with that situation accordingly. So again the forum should be managed with rules not with manes. I can call myself William Tong, is there anything wrong with that?


 


I hope I am clear.


 


 


Have a nice time


 


 


Tong Deng  



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 Dear all


Guys this is funny,By way the  i am not here to ask  young Mike  to leave the decussion board,but i just want him to stop that language and i "KUDUAL MENH KE aWEIL" brother  Mike that language alone can judge you forget what people says about your idenfication.any way have a nice time since you mentioned that you leaving.


    thanks Alual



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Dearest Mike,


I am honored to take this opportunity to write to you though I am extremely busy with other stuff. I didn't find extra time to respond to your precious membership on our website, and that was the reason I didn't say the word of welcome, excuse me for that delay. Mike, your membership here at Madingaweil website is something exceptionally honorable and respectful to our progress in the development of this website. We, Madingaweil people feel honored and loved whenever we have a new member outside our community. It gives us an impression that we are actually being cared for by our friends and allies.  Mike, we all care and respect you as human and there is no way we will be tempted under any circumstance to intimidate or blackmail you for no good reason. It is our ambitious mission here at Madingaweil website to maintain and elevate the aspiration and hopes of our friends, you (Mike) included. You have freedom to use any name you want so long you there is no dangerous motive behind. Mike, I know that you are a great guy and it won't be good for you to withdraw because of Atenywek reamark.


Mike, I honestly beg your forgiveness based upon your interpretation of Ateywek's remark. Atenywek is the person that cares for most of us. He  is responsible and caring person and I know that he didn't mean or intend to hurt your feeling. He was only curious if you may allow me to use that word. As I said that he is a responsible and caring person in his life, he just wanted to make sure all of us (participants) have confidence and assurance in members we are involved in dialogue or discussions. He was only compelled to make that remark because there are innumerable instances where pseudo names appear to be more insidiously lethal or detrimental. Mike, Atenywek therefore had no intention at all to provoke you so that you can eventually quit the board. Atenywek wants us to be constructively progressive and learn from one another. He believes that we must respect each other and work as southerners or Aweillians in the way that would encourage unity and peace amongst us. Mike, I hope I/we have tried to make sure that we have no bad intention  nor Atenywek does to discourage our great members. We will be hurt more than you if you withdraw for that unintended remark.


The bottomline is that Atenywek had not intention to discourage or intimidate. He is democratic man and he can't intimidate or blackmail anybody.


Ngor Kolong,


It is not good to encourage Mike to withdraw. It is doesn't reflect the right way of finding solution whenever problem occurs. Encouraging Mike to withdraw means that you don' want Mike to have peace and unity with Aweil people. That is wrong approach to the problem. Don't encourage him to withdraw for that light misunderstanding. Mike and Aweil people have ability to rectify this situation and be the members of this website still. There is nothing wrong with Mike position either. He wants to tell that he was hurt by Atenywek remark which is no bad at all. I/We appreciate his candor or frank character.


Tong Deng,


Your insight was great. They (members) can use any name sthey like provided there is no derailment.


Garang-Mayik Aher



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"....it's okay for mike to withdraw and even John Aleu. And i reguest from you as a manager, that try to put some guidelines for those you fierce and threat others."


What goes around must come around!


Ngor Kolong! what are you up to youngman? Sincerely speaking, what is the connection of Mike's issue with John Aleu? Are you John ALeu or Mike? Did you brought them here or by themselves?


Gentleman, we don't want discrepancies here but peace of mind period. You will fool a fool but all of us are aware of your intents.


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Dear Mike,

Thank for your remarks about my previous welcome to you. I am very pleased to know you over Mading Aweil web site. Mike, although you consider yourself as a new member in Mading Aweil web site, Aweil people in general consider you as an alreday existing member because you are sound minded person and well articulate.

Dear Mike, Mading Aweil public forum has no history of suspension and it is not meant to discriminate others either on names, sex, race, color etc. It was mainly established to promote greater diversity within Aweil community and greater interactions of Aweil community with the rest of South sudanese, Sudanese, African and the world at large. All members are allowed to express their freedom of press genuinely with one another and they can use any names they are comfortable with. So please I kindly beg you to hold your membership with Aweil community. Mr. Ateny Wek didn't intend to hurt your feelings. He is very eloquent man who loves greater Aweil diversity with the rest of the world. you will know him very well as time goes by.

Eventually, Mading Aweil heartedly apologized for this incovenience misunderstanding and would like both of you to forgive each other. The future of South Sudan belong to us, so let us utilized it well by greater interactions and good understanding within us. Please feel homely with us.

Dear Tong Deng,

Thank for your nice remarks. That is what Mading Aweil should do when problems arise and not fueling them.

Peace
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Originally posted by: Kijana Dhor

""....it's okay for mike to withdraw and even John Aleu. And i reguest from you as a manager, that try to put some guidelines for those you fierce and threat others."
What goes around must come around!
Ngor Kolong! what are you up to youngman? Sincerely speaking, what is the connection of Mike's issue with John Aleu? Are you John ALeu or Mike? Did you brought them here or by themselves?
Gentleman, we don't want discrepancies here but peace of mind period. You will fool a fool but all of us are aware of your intents.
Dhor.
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